These days I find myself praying the Serenity Prayer often. But for me, I find a slight modification helps me: God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage AND THE WAY to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. I am discovering that the wisdom to know the difference of what I can change and the wisdom to know the way to change what I can – can make all of the difference to me and my walk in emotional sobriety!